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I wonder how it comes that there are good days and not that good days. is it the capability of appreciating small things that make the day or is it big problems that take the sun away from the sky?
in theory the answer is simple: everything depends on attitude.
but how big measures are we talking about? and what does impact it?

is it that one huge mistake can lead to depression?
is it that one small good thing can take you out of it?

or is it that you try harder to see the good things around you when you're on a good mood? how to keep this feeling? is it necessary?

yesterday i was completely down. i've fucked up a lot of relationships around me. and somehow once again, feels like the only thing i can hide in, is music. that one has still never let me down. never has. never will. it is demanding. but the relationship to music is clear. it holds no grudge. it is never disappointed. and it is there, whenever you turn to it.

today i am fine. happy as a clam. clapping on my shoulder and saying:...

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-03-09

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failing at life sucks. you, or ppl besides you, can try convincing you that "you're so damn good at piano, skating, writing, bla bla bla" and which is very nice of course in case it's the latter, it might give you the sense of comfort for a while, but however hard you try to convince yourself, you know, that how good you are at things that can be counted on fingers don't mean a shit. you can play pool? swim faster? smart? pretty? talented? pfe, suck it. does that make you a better person? not a tiny bit. it might sound like I'm bitter at life. I'm not, or at least that's what I'd like to think. just tired of it and the two of us don't get along too well.

they say that deadline is a power. and i'd agree because of experience. if you have to do a thing over unlimited period of time, you just let it be. do a little thing once and then, maybe. but as soon as there is a deadline, we pull the crap together, sit down and work until it's done.

so.. how about our lives? we feel that it is an unlimited period of...

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-27

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with every evening passing i just feel like passing away more and more. the reasons for me not doing anything stupid here is the problematic carrying of my worthless body back and the disappointment which my dad would feel. and the thought that i can still turn this depression into a valuable art. i feel like my journey is over. there is nothing left for me to do. i don't need or want help. it is fine the way it is. it is the way it's supposed to be.

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-21

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there was once a gal. she was pretty happy person till she went to sweden and realized that she had lost one of the most important ppl in her life. she got seriously depressed and tried getting out of it in many ways. she didn't want to let one drop of coffee spoil the entire swimming pool so she rather appreciated the ppl around instead of focusing on the lost. and started feeling better. kinda. there were still things missing but she kept telling herself that time heals every single bruise.

then she met ppl that messed up her mind even more. she was lost. she started giving up ppl. it was easier to give them up than keep them and hurt them. or be responsible for anything. or think or miss or be attached. i suck as a friend. i suck big time. i appreciate but i don't show it. i suck as anything. i'm rather on my own. so i don't disappoint anyone.

although, i didn't count in a thing. that however cold i try to be, they still matter.
and giving them up is just not that simple.

i don't deserve to have...

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-18

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so i just noticed that i feel a little bit better, as in i'm getting out of my depression.

and i feel a little worse, since i know that there are some things i am not doing the right way.

what the hell. i mean.. theoretically i shouldn't feel this way, because i haven't done anything wrong. i am not even on the verge of doing something wrong. but it feels like i am letting people think what they want to think. aka - i am putting up an illusion. and i don't have the power to take it away and show the harsh reality.

i am empty. as if my life just started. 2 days ago. i don't regret anything. and i don't miss anything. i feel lonely once and then, but i feel that it's right.

i am sorry.

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-17

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as usually, i have once again met a person who changed my life/opinion about it in some way.
and some other things have happened at the same time.

first of all, atm, i feel extremely remote from the world. even when i had to leave latvia, it felt kinda funny, cuz there wasn't really anyone for me to leave behind. i am not attached to anyone. how can this be, that i just just take off to another country and not even feel sorry or any of it? good for me, i guess.

then again, 3 nights ago, the amazing thing happened. i met a friend and a 2-hour-coffe turned into smth else. it felt amazing to see that sometimes ppl don't grow apart, or more precisely, if they have been apart, that they can grow back together.

meeting old friends has brought me a lot of thoughts lately. maybe i should stop meeting them. stop digging around in the past. just move on to another place and another life.

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-16

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maybe there is some hope. maybe i just have to focus on that this is gonna end soon and have to prepare for greece. kinda woke up on a good mood but there are still a lot of things that can go wrong. so keep your fingers crossed for me. i can do this.

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-12

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i feel empty. for a few weeks i have felt empty. apparently it has smth to do with my trip to swe cuz as far as i can remember i was full of life and plans for the spring/summer/year before i went there. also, since there aren't too many objectives for me to do at this point, i feel worthless. the obvious lack of sleep has affected my "joy channels" because obviously i can't even as much as smile. i feel that there is no point or meaning of my life. going through motions once again. what am i living for? there is basically no point of me living anymore. no suicidal thoughts, just.. just that i don't feel like my life is good for anything.

Skrivet av arlona, 2009-02-10

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