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was i ever myself?

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-12-11

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didn't think i would ever feel so wrecked again.

then again, i brought it on myself.

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-12-05

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ridicule
violent opposition
acceptance

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-29

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ok, the first step to healing is admitting the flaw, right?

well, here it is:

i am arrogant.
i love talking about myself.
i hate small talk.
i love talking about ideas, plans, events, because those enriches my world and personality.

in my defense:

i'm at 24/7 service to pretty much anyone, that's common sense.
i don't let people in in fear of back stabbing and rumors.
i never spill secrets, talk behind the back, indulge in gossip, humiliate on purpose (arrogant people don't have time for that, right?)
i don't mind if people don't pay any attention to me.

i might not be good person. but at least i try to minimize the damage.

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-23

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1. make the decision.
2. arm with discipline.
3. cut the crap, junk, everything that makes one feel bad and causes dis-balance.
4. pay one's dues.
5. live one day at the time and master it.
6. set new goals.
7. enjoy the fruits of your work and attitude.

done, done, done.

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-21

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people think they want security.

they're wrong.

they want challenges. adventures. and feel alive.

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-20

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one evening i went down the memory lane with my former high-school classmate who is now my man. he revealed that he used to envy me during high school since everything came so easy to me and i achieved great success. ironically he believed it despite the fact that i was failing in several subjects and only pushed myself in the last year, when the grades really mattered.
but his words got me thinking, since this wasn't the first time when someone admitted to envying me. it also got me thinking about someone telling me that everything in my life has been given to me on a silver platter.
let's get one thing clear - that has never been the case.

as a child, i was reading books, while others watched tv.
then i worked abroad to save up while others decided on a university.
then i got up for morning classes while other chose to sleep.
i worked nights while others took loans or money from their parents.
i played computer games and viola while others partied.
i wrote bachelor's and master's paper while...

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-16

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i've come to confirm the fact that i am an introvert. huge needs of personal space. huge personal space. which has also lead me to following conclusions:

1) i am rarely the one to first start the conversation. but i enjoy someone else starting it, and have a wide variety of subjects to share my opinion on.

2) i can get annoyed by really adorable and wonderful people just because of space issues. however i have become a lot better at explaining the issue before it explodes in everyone's face.

3) sometimes i get attached to people who don't give two birds about my existence, just because they leave me alone.

4) i'm a weirdo and i love it. i'm glad the people around me do not try to break me and change who i am.

i also thought back of a period where i overstepped personal space and now (when i am back to myself) can see how annoying it can be. but that's a story that started with overstepping any boundaries, so there is no logical explanation or excuse for that.

Skrivet av arlona, 2017-11-14

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